Why You Should Ask Questions Before Getting Married

There are some experiences I said wouldn't be sharing here just like the one I'm about to share now because it's better to put it down in a book and make profit from it. Nevertheless on a second thought, I just feel our knowledge should be targeted towards helping humanity over money

Due to the desire to get married by most ladies, the idea of asking questions about the person they intend to marry is now almost irrelevant. Nobody cares for such information anymore because it's now old fashion right? Just come and pay bride price and that is all that matters to some

Recently, I noticed it seems only the guys go to make findings while majority of ladies don't care about the guys family. They just want to marry and join CWO. The woke ones among them met their partners and did their wedding in Lagos without even attempting to know the guys village nor ask questions. Some even met their partners online and never bothered to make proper research on them and their background before tying the knot

For some ladies, we only heard they were married to our relatives but we haven't set eyes on them for once. They didn't even bother to come back to know if the person they are marrying is human or not

Anyways, Okey Aliyu has something to tell us. Let's pay attention to him please

"I know a family of five (5) who got married and none of them have conceived. I didn't say I heard, I said I know. Four (4) guys and a lady, all married but no children even after many years. I am an intelligent and logical being who doesn't give too much attention to spirituality so don't say I am just being too spiritual. But at a time, I had to ask questions.

I know another family that all the male children don't live pass forty (40) years. They marry on time and give birth to children then start to struggle to beat that age limit. The ones I know didn't live pass that age. These things aren't coincidental. We have heard stories from elders that their own parents and grandparents didn't live pass that age

You might be a faithful Christian but the man you might be getting married to might be that their compound in the village is housing the deity in his village. There are some that will build but won't enter their house. Some, marrying them equals bad luck

For some, mental illness runs in their family. Some are useless. Some have deep secret they might not tell you. Some have wives but you won't know. For some, their family might have a curse running with them. Some will give birth and all the children will die. Some their wives die during child birth. Some have agwụ isi but, you won't know if you don't ask questions

Some have foundational problem and too numerous miseries to mention.

One wrong move and you might just be caging yourself in marriage. There are some marriages you will enter that coming out becomes impossible till death. You will be frustrated and you will curse God for allowing you come to this earth.

Imagine yourself inheriting problem you know nothing about. By then, you will know marriage isn't the end point of life. If you like don't ask questions before jumping into one cage called marriage. Just marry without asking questions. After all, Christ have already paid the price on the cross of Calvary so you don't need to bother"

Hope this makes sense

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