𝐋𝐄𝐓'𝐒 𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐊 𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐒𝐄𝐗, 𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐖𝐄❓
Sex was created by God for two reasons as far as I know: 𝑭𝒐𝒓 𝑷𝑹𝑶𝑪𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑻𝑰𝑶𝑵, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑬𝑵𝑱𝑶𝒀𝑴𝑬𝑵𝑻! As I have pointed out before, the most intense feeling in the world was embedded in sex... That's what scientists called 𝙊𝙍𝙂𝘼𝙎𝙈! It has been proven that 𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒂𝒔𝒎 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒃𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆. Nothing else beats it physically, not even being in the presence of God (mm-hm🤨), being in the club, watching your favourite movie, or any form of food, aphrodisiac or not. Nothing beats the intense feeling of orgasms.
Remember, 𝙂𝙊𝘿 𝘽𝙐𝙄𝙇𝙏 𝙊𝙍𝙂𝘼𝙎𝙈 𝙄𝙉𝙏𝙊 𝙀𝙑𝙀𝙍𝙔 𝙎𝙄𝙉𝙂𝙇𝙀 𝙃𝙐𝙈𝘼𝙉 𝘽𝙀𝙄𝙉𝙂, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙞𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙖 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙙 𝙎𝙀𝙓𝙐𝘼𝙇 𝙐𝙍𝙂𝙀. God also created that one too.
A sexual urge is not a sin. As a matter of fact, if you don't have the capacity to feel sexual urges, YOU HAVE A MEDICAL PROBLEM, AND YOU NEED HELP. So having a sexual urge is not the sin; the sin is not controlling the sexual urge, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕'𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒚 𝒂 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒊𝒕 𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒌𝒆𝒆𝒑 𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒄𝒌, 𝒊𝒏 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒎 𝒐𝒇 𝑺𝑬𝑳𝑭-𝑪𝑶𝑵𝑻𝑹𝑶𝑳, 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 9 𝒇𝒓𝒖𝒊𝒕𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒕.
So, SEX IS A VERY VERY BEAUTIFUL THING! It was created by God, and remember, when God looked at all He had created, He concluded that "it was all good", including sex.
But how come when sex is mentioned, people feel uncomfortable? As you're reading this post, somebody is wishing I hadn't made the post. Somebody is somewhere thinking I have evil in my mind because I'm talking about sex. A lot of so-called "Christians" are judging me right now for making this post😅.
We can't even mention sex in church. We only say it in passing, or when we want to list sinful things. We list sex as one of the sins, thereby painting it as evil! There's not one church I know, where sex is made a topic for sermon. Have you ever heard it in your church? I mean church, not cell meeting or relationship forum. CHURCH! Absolutely none! Every Sunday, they tell us how to live right. They teach us about heaven. They teach us about tithing. They teach us about giving and love. Even when they teach us about marriage, they don't even talk about sex!
Imagine going to a church, and then it's time for sermon, and the pastor says:
"𝑩𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒆𝒏, 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒘𝒆'𝒓𝒆 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒌 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝑺𝑬𝑿. 𝑻𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒏𝒆𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒔𝒂𝒚 𝑺𝑬𝑿."😅😅😅 (you know preachers).
How many of you will turn to your neighbour and mention the word "SEX"?🤣. Imagine your mum is the one sitting beside you. Will you turn to her and say the word "sex"? Will your mother or father turn to you and say "sex"? Think about it.
𝐈𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐢𝐜 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐞𝐱 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞, 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐆𝐨𝐝, 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐂𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐓𝐄𝐃 𝐒𝐄𝐗?! 𝐈𝐟 𝐬𝐞𝐱 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭? Just keep thinking about it....
In so many homes, parents dread to mention sex to their children, and these children grow up to learn it from different wrong sources. 𝙄, 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙤𝙣𝙚, 𝙙𝙞𝙙 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙭 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨. 𝙄 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣𝙤𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙥𝙝𝙮, 𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙖𝙯𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨, 𝙗𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨. 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙚, 𝙄 𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙝 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙙 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩. 𝙎𝙤 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙥𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙮 𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙭, 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙛𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙜𝙚𝙙!
Many of you are like me. Your parents have never mentioned sex to you before; not directly. African parents only give you the idea that IT IS WRONG! That's why many of us grew up with the wrong mentality about sex. Something beautiful that God made, has been cast aside like a dirty thing! How come?!
Well, first of all, OUR PARENTS DID US WRONG! They didn't teach us what we were supposed to know about sex. With the way they kept it from us, they would assume we'd know to keep away from it, but a young curious mind cannot keep away from things like that. This is why some parents who never taught their children about sex, become surprised when their girl tells them she's pregnant, or their boy gets a lady pregnant. They presume because we weren't taught much, we wouldn't know much about it.
"𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒅𝒂𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒂𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒔𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒊𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒏𝒂𝒖, 𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒆'𝒔 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒈𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒕?!"
"𝑴𝒚 𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒅𝒐𝒆𝒔𝒏'𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒌 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒊𝒓𝒍𝒔? 𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒈𝒊𝒓𝒍 𝒊𝒔 𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒈𝒏𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒓?!"
If only God would open the eyes of our parents to see what their children know😅😅😅. If God would, even by mistake, crack my mum's eyes to see what her son has done in the past, I would have been disowned by now🤣🤣🤣🤣. Oh yes! But that's true.
𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐞𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝, 𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐀𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬, 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥. 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐨 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐭𝐲𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐮𝐫𝐠𝐞. 𝐆𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐮𝐫𝐠𝐞, 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐭𝐡🤣.
𝑰 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒌 𝑰'𝒎 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐𝒐 𝒇𝒂𝒓. 𝑾𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏'𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒘𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝑶𝑹𝑫𝑰𝑵𝑨𝑹𝒀 𝑪𝑹𝑼𝑺𝑯! 𝑾𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒅𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔! 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒕'𝒔 𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒔𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘𝒍𝒆𝒅𝒈𝒆!
Till today, even as I am approaching my marriage stage, I can't even walk up to my parents and tell them I like a girl. I haven't even told them I have had feelings for more than 20 girls in my whole life, and that I've dated 3 so far (Hei God ehhh.... May they not see this post🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣).
And I'm thinking of introducing one fine girl to them o🤣🤣🤣. Only God can help my life for dis marry wey I wan marry😂😂😂. Brethren please be praying for me!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 18, 𝙄 𝙬𝙤𝙠𝙚 𝙪𝙥 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙬𝙚𝙩. 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙙 𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙦𝙪𝙞𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙨𝙡𝙞𝙢𝙮, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙞𝙙𝙣'𝙩 𝙨𝙢𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙚. 𝙄 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙢𝙮 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩 𝙚𝙥𝙞𝙨𝙤𝙙𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙣𝙤𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙙𝙤𝙣'𝙩 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙, 𝙄 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙚𝙟𝙖𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙! 𝙄 𝙝𝙖𝙙 𝙣𝙤 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙖 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙨... 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙖 𝙨𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙢𝙮 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚, 𝙉𝘼 𝙊𝙉𝙇𝙔 𝙋𝙀𝙀 𝙄 𝙎𝘼𝘽𝙄😅... 𝙉𝙤𝙬 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙡𝙞𝙢𝙮 𝙨𝙩𝙪𝙛𝙛 𝙄 𝙙𝙤𝙣'𝙩 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙙. 𝙂𝙪𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩? 𝙄 𝙠𝙚𝙥𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙮𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛, 𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙤𝙙𝙖𝙮. 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙𝙣'𝙩 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖 𝙙𝙖𝙢𝙣 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙡 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙢𝙗𝙚𝙧, 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙖 18-𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧-𝙤𝙡𝙙 𝙨𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙤𝙮, 𝙨𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙜𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙚, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙄'𝙙 𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙞𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙪𝙡𝙜𝙚! 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙞𝙩. 𝙒𝙝𝙮 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙞𝙩 𝙗𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙖𝙮?
And because our parents did not create that ground for such trust, we tend to hide things away from them. Many of you have kissed other people, dated others, even had sex, but your parents still think till today that you're "saving yourself"😅. They even use you as example for others🤣:
"𝑳𝒐𝒐𝒌 𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒈𝒊𝒓𝒍! 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒅𝒐𝒆𝒔𝒏'𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒌 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒖𝒚𝒔! 𝑰 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒆𝒍𝒍. 𝑺𝒉𝒆'𝒔 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒂 𝒗𝒊𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒏. 𝑰'𝒎 𝒔𝒐 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒉𝒆𝒓!"
But just the other day, 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗲𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗼𝗼𝗺 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝘂𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗻 𝘀𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀!😂😂😂😂😂. Real stuff, people! Ain't no need to put a cloak over it.
Our parents did not do well by us at all! But I am here to ask you to BECOME A BETTER PARENT!
Many people may ask: 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙖 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙭?
𝑺𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒆: 𝑨𝑺 𝑺𝑶𝑶𝑵 𝑨𝑺 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑪𝑯𝑰𝑳𝑫 𝑩𝑬𝑮𝑰𝑵𝑺 𝑻𝑶 𝑼𝑵𝑫𝑬𝑹𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑵𝑫 𝑾𝑶𝑹𝑫𝑺! 𝑰𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒇 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 "𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒚 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒚", 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒎𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆.
What you probably don't know is this: 𝗔 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘅𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗱𝗼𝗹𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀... 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘅𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗡 𝗕𝗘𝗙𝗢𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗬 𝗔𝗥𝗘 𝗕𝗢𝗥𝗡! Once a baby forms in you, you are growing a sexual being in you. So once you get him or her out, the goal is to INFORM THEM THAT THEY ARE SEXUAL BEINGS! They deserve to know! They have to start getting that into their mind as they grow. Don't let them find out the wrong way.
When a naive kid asks, "𝒅𝒂𝒅𝒅𝒚, 𝒎𝒖𝒎𝒎𝒚, 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒅𝒐 𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎?", it is silly to start lying, telling these innocent minds that birds bring the babies, or that angels bring it. It is a very terrible thing to do as a parent! (Well maybe "terrible" is a strong word....).
That child needs to know that 𝗮 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗮 𝘃𝗮𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗮, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘇𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝘃𝘂𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆, 𝑩𝑼𝑻 𝑰𝑻 𝑯𝑨𝑺 𝑻𝑶 𝑩𝑬 𝑬𝑿𝑷𝑳𝑨𝑰𝑵𝑬𝑫 𝑰𝑵 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑴𝑶𝑺𝑻 𝑩𝑨𝑩𝒀𝑰𝑺𝑯 𝑾𝑨𝒀 𝑷𝑶𝑺𝑺𝑰𝑩𝑳𝑬, so as not to overload them with penis-vagina info that will cause convulsion🤣🤣🤣🤣. Some convulsion is not the devil... It's not evil spirit.... It's info overload😂😂😂😂😂😂. Even some people here reading this are having small convulsion!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oya sorry, goan drink water and come back and continue reading😁😁😁😁.
YOUR PARENTS CAUSED IT😏😏.
All I'm saying is, it is not good to lie to a sexual being about sex, no matter how tiny that sexual being is. Once they can understand, they deserve to know. The only thing to change is the structure of the information, so that they can understand it better as they grow, BUT NOT CHANGING THE TRUTH! Start thinking about what to tell your kids now😄😄😄.
A kid needs to know that the penis is both for urinating and sexual intercourse.
Your baby girl needs to know that her vagina is a sexual organ too!
Just put it in a way he/she would understand.
𝐀𝐥𝐬𝐨, 𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬. 𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐱 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐥, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐭𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐛𝐞 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐛𝐚𝐝, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒔𝒆𝒕 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒔𝒆𝒙, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐨, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐝!
𝗣𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲! 𝗣𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲!! 𝗣𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲!!!
Don't be all spiritual about this! You cannot completely solve the issue of the sexual waywardness of your child by bombarding them with the word of God. We're talking about normal human feelings. It's not a prayer thing. It's not strictly a word of God thing. It's a RIGHT KNOWLEDGE THING! They have to know about sex, that it's a beautiful thing, and that the energy has to be channelled in the right direction. Trying to spiritualize this matter is why we have even pastors' sons impregnating girls everywhere, and pastors' daughters bring home the "belle". TEACH THESE KIDS WHAT THEY NEED TO KNOW. Stop limiting the knowledge you share to just the morning devotion and the daily prayers!
Finally, you need to adjust your own mind as a parent. Sex is a beautiful thing, and God created it. If you understand sex, then you will have something to share with your kids, and when they become comfortable enough to confide in you, you can then help them channel their sexual energy the right way.
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